Our beloved Sophie left this earth on November 8, 2013. Her loving light surrounds us and can be found in the space of your heart, always. We invite all those who knew and loved her to share thoughts and memories on this memorial website. We also invite you to watch a beautiful film she made, set to the song “All Wash Out.” Please watch this wonderful gift she gave to us, and leave a message in the space below.
When Sophie died the air thickened, the room swayed, we lost balance
When Sophie died the phones rang and buzzed and pinged
No one stopped the telling and no one said anything
When Sophie died we came together, cooked food, talked to our children, told stories, looked at pictures
When Sophie died we dared not stop talking and dared not say anything at all
When Sophie died all those lessons and promises and rights and truths started crumbling
Hearts all broken
When Sophie died we asked why and didn’t question
Then I remembered how Sophie lived
When Sophie lived there were beautiful smiles, loving family, fields of green
When Sophie lived there were American Girl dolls, beautiful dresses, dogs
When Sophie lived there was music playing, cameras clicking, film rolling
When Sophie lived there were airports, fancy luggage, trips to everywhere, the best hotels
When Sophie lived she was surrounded by family and friends
She gave light and beauty and art
so I will remember when Sophie lived
Such a beauty, a testament to her parents love. I did not meet Sophia, until I just watched the video; a beautiful legacy of a beautiful woman who seemed to be one with nature and the power of the universe.
Jack and Cait, no words are enough, but you have been in my thoughts and prayers since Nov ’13.
Jack and Cait,
We are so incredibly sorry to hear about our amazing, beautiful, creative , and intelligent cousin Sophie. Sophie was full of life and happiness. I will cherish all of the time we spent together as a family. May you treasure all of your memories of Sophie and hold them in your hearts. Sophie lived a full life and was loved by all. I saw her “creative component” as early as the age of seven. I remember reading a story that Sophie wrote in second grade. It was approximately seven pages long. The detail and the fluidity was mesmerizing! It didn’t surprise me when she was accepted into New York University! She was a perfect fit. Sophie was truly a natural born storyteller, author, and filmmaker .She will always live in our hearts. We love you so much. You have our full support always.
Sophia,
Not a day goes by where I stop missing you.
Not a night passes where your face fades away.
Not a risk of adventure is regretted.
Not a goal we’ve accomplished goes forgotten.
Not a memory we shared is accompanied with displeasure.
We met by art, which began with paint in a frame, that concluded with a masterpiece of friendship.
We met by music, which began with lyrics in a song, that concluded with a metaphor of love.
We met by souls, which began with affinity in a universe, that concluded with an understanding of family.
We met by life which began with friends in an art room with a picture constructed by a frame inspired by music with lyrics in a song about two souls who have an affinity within this universe who were meant to paint a sung metaphorical masterpiece to represent an understanding of friendship, family, and love.
You organized the chaos.
You brought light into a room.
You were the muse of my life.
Give us all strength to fight on this planet without you.
Give us all love to light the way through the winding paths on this earth without you.
I am no longer afraid of being a lost soul to the abyss, because as soul mates we will soon meet again.
<3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3
I of course knew Sophie, but I truly knew her through my daughter Haley. They met at Aunt Carla’s wedding as children and in a few minutes were fast friends. Time and distance changed that until they both became students at Tisch, NYU. These glorious young girls were becoming great friends. As a mother of one of these glorious girls, I can’t imagine the loss of one. No mother or father can. This wonderful young woman, so full of talent, joy, life, no one should ever lose that. So Cait and Jack I am sure you will revel in the fact you were part of Sophie’s brilliance, her extra special quality, her beauty inside and out, that almost inexpressible vibrancy that she contained. Know that there will be a lasting legacy in you, her many friends, and family’s memories. We will always be surrounded by her bright light.
brilliant and beautiful young lady. that video is magical. I remember meeting her at the wedding. she was grace and radiance, beyond her years. you are all in my prayers. may you find a measure of comfort in faith, family, friends and knowing you will be together again. Love never dies.
with my heartfelt sympathy, laurie (celeste’s aunt)
Sophie was one the first friends that I made in Tisch, and one of the most dedicated filmmakers I have ever met. I transferred from LSP and didn’t know a single person when I first stepped into the building. I had been introduced to her by a close friend, and was texting her the entire day before. If there was one thing that anyone could know about Sophie, it was that she was a sweetheart. She made me feel infinitely better about transferring, and helped me every step of the way. If I ever had a question, or ever needed a friend to talk to, Sophie was there. I still can’t believe that she’s gone, and I can’t help but think of all the movies that won’t be made in her absence. Sophie was one of the most creative, and unique people I have ever had the pleasure to work with in Tisch. She will be greatly missed, and I’m proud to have called her my friend. I will always remember Sophie as the creative, brilliantly intelligent, and amazing filmmaker she was. She will live on through the thoughts and memories of her friends and loved ones forever. Rest easy Soph, you will always be remembered.
Soph you were the first friend I made at NYU and together we made a lot of work and a lot of memories. To know that you are no longer here is surreal. There are so many things I wish I could’ve said. You are the reason for all of this and you will never leave my thoughts.
Sophia, you were a light in the room, and you will be deeply missed.
Sophie and I really bonded last year in our acting class, when we had an emotional, final scene together. Our assignment was to get to know each other outside of the classroom and I am so glad that the two of us were paired off. Our trips to Soho “in character” were so much fun, and I was really able to see Sophie’s fun loving, energetic, positive personality, if only for a short while. I’ll never forget singing to “put your records on” … just the two of us. Over and over. Our characters were sisters, and after a few hours with her, I really felt that sisterly connection. I don’t think I would’ve felt that with just anyone. I couldn’t have asked for a better partner, a better friend, throughout my entire Sophomore year here. I’m so thankful that our lives crossed paths. Sophie, you are greatly missed.
‘The reason it hurts so much to separate is because our souls are all connected.’
Soph has one big beautiful soul that has touched many others in many beautiful ways.
You’re in our hearts forever Sophie. I hope sooner or later we will cross paths, and if we don’t, I promise your memories will live in us all. May your journey be fulfilling sweet girl. I’m still dancin’ with ya Soph!
Dear Sophie, You were the first person I met in New York. You were always so filled with energy that overflowed into all of those around you. When I made a Doctor Who joke, your roommate and the others with us look at me like a weirdo and snickered, hoverer you genuinely laughed and smiled.
You made me feel accepted in this massive, anonymous city, like I was sone one.
One of my biggest regrets was to let one of them get in between our friendship and how I truly wish we were able to become closer friends and had worked together my times in the future. I guess that shan’t happen any more and that pains me beyond belief.
I miss you, Sophie, and I hope you are in a better place and still making beutiful images on that silver screen!
Sophie,
thanks for leaving us this beautiful video of our sister the rain. I will certainly think of you when it rains (we expect tomorrow in chrystals, ice). It will make us feel somewhat soothed. Enjoy the Peace and the Light in your new home and rain down blessings on your wonderful parents. With love to you and family, Rolph
Sophie,
You introduced me to one of my best friends and brought me closer to some of my best friends all in one weekend. It was truly amazing. We had no budget (in typical student fashion) it was 20 degrees on a beach and we were wearing t-shirts, you made what should have been a miserable weekend an incredible bonding experience. We all miss you. Thank you for helping me bring my words to life. The next one is for you.
Sophie,
Having a fellow Vermonter in the city was always such a treat. I treasured the moments I would run into you on the street- my day would get a bit brighter every time I saw your infectious smile. When you asked me to be in your sight and sound film,
I was elated. During the shoot I was so impressed by your directing. You had such a clear vision and did a beautiful job expressing it. The world will forever miss your exquisite filmmaking, and your bright and shining spirit. You are extraordinary, Sophie. Thank you for all you have given all of us.